Oddbean new post about login | logout got it, thanks for the warning as I've just started, I haven't had these problems yet because everything is running locally. I'll test using relayer soon, is the relay you're building on github?
https://realy.lol yes, there was quite a few parts that are not really quite ready yet in fiatjaf's relayer, i think realy is closer to ready it is on github, i just have one of those vanity redirects on that domain name pointing to it so its imports are neat