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matej | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 An inspiring and refreshing anecdote ❤️

I don’t like the way it makes me judge people in a second or two based on a few photos. Also, being judged is unpleasant.

Yet again, your story is beautiful and I believe some people are mean’t to meet that way. Very happy for you ❤️
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matej | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 *meant
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mandana | 5 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 Thank you 🥰

I think judgement is normal and should help guide you to who may be best for you. Attraction is so important but the key is to redesign what you’re attracted to if you’re not getting the results you want. That’s what I loved about Tinder. Lots of opportunities to switch up what I was looking for.