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….Tread carefully my brotha

…if y’all  have multiple children close in age “stay at home mom” is not a cake walk 

….imho…make sure this is gonna be ur forever wife and find a way to make it work…u know “death do us part” and all

…if u ain’t sure then a prenup is the least of perspective problems🤷🏽‍♂️

I’ve spent 36 years teaching my lovely wife to live with disappointment…and we’ve always found a way to make it work😂🤣

My advice: 1) don’t fight…but u will…so 2) when u do fight fight fair…don’t drag up a bunch o crap from the past and don’t impulsively say some sh*t u can’t unsay…and 3) say “I love you” as often as u can and kiss her goodbye every morning…that is all…my 3 steps to a successful marriage (full disclosure: I’ve f*cked a lot of that stuff up but the Good Lord sent me someone with great coping skillz😊)

Jus one idgits opinion