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 @1173fcde i'm the serious type when it comes to that stuff. and i need some time to get comfortable with a person physically. i don't have a long dating/sex history considering my age. 
 @1173fcde i think she must've encountered a lot of playboys because she said i was the first guy to have real conversation and to bond with her. she seemed very sad when i told her goodbye. she made and lost a close friend in a rather short time span, and so did i. can't just switch off feelings though. 
 @c721880c 

Well maybe it is not over yet? I don't know you guys but sometimes Love or a relationship doesn't start easy.

Well that's at least how love happend to me. 
 @1173fcde it would've been a little easier if she wasn't leaving town 

but even in person, she ruled out the possibility of a relationship

quite adamant about that, yet visibly attached to me. it was so weird. 
 @c721880c 

Damn yeah sounds bad so going out might be a good solution to deal with your situation. 
 @c721880c Finding people where it works out is just luck.

I always thougt it depends on me but now I would say it just just luck to find a person. 
 @1173fcde the whole thing was an accident because we met via a friend finding app and i was just looking to meet new people but then we met and... oh... there's a little more than just chit-chat here. palpable personal chemistry.

i have terrible luck with dating apps. and i never met another soul in that friend app after her. dumb luck. 
 @c721880c 

I was just following you because after try to learn finnish since I started study design I was now looking for people from norway here because I just found it's a lovely language too and much easier to understand compared to finnish. 
 @1173fcde oh man, i don't post all that much in Norwegian, haha. audience is so small here. occasional posts but...