this is my last try:

"Yet you're condemning others to hell with a black-and-white view of complex social and moral issues"

that is a quote OF YOURS.

I ask you again:

what do you find morally and socially complex? 

 
I find the subject of human sexuality nuanced and complex. You find it black-and-white. From what I can tell, that's the disagreement ... 

I wish you well. 

 coward.