How does running my node (Start9), help me and the Bitcoin network?
It helps you by validating that payments you receive are real. It does not help the network.
yes it does all replicas matter
one simple example is in setting a bigger mempool... then your node is keeping transactions during heavy traffic from falling out of mempools without the sender knowing
it's easy to run a node. I have 2 here on 2 machines at home they propagate megabytes of data to feed others, strengthening the network every day sometimes they may send data to miners, who knows? a hostile government will see them and know that their censorship task Will be that much bigger someday it's a fuck you to the censors feels good