There is a trap that cannot be disregarded if you really want to be financially healthy. Save part of what you earn, or find a way to make more revenue sources!

Maintain a quality of life to show family members that you are “well” - it is a mistake that is expensive, and no one comes to rescue you, when you are in debt!

I remember well when I was married and having two jobs, things were done just to show Instagram, family members and little to provide happy moments for two.

Every weekend, it was barbecue and pool bath at my expense. When I said, we need to step on the brakes and I started to cut constant visits, the Radar here, became the boring - and no one likes people like that, responsible, who try to balance the accounts.

Anyway, there are not only unpleasant things; I will leave it to my son, a roof over his head, for after I leave this land. Meanwhile, this is to continue with the plan to be better every day, for me and for the others who approach me. 

 You live and you learn(hopefully). Followed🤝