No..it isn't like saying that. You need to believe that and that is okay.
Empathize withb this that maybe because you are better equipped to handle abuse, that does not mean people need to accept it and can't fight it. Vocally and loudly. There always will be idiots in the town square. Rebeling is not victimhood, nor is it worthy of eye rolls. 

Have you ever worn heals? 

 I don’t “need” to believe anything. I don’t owe you anything. 

 Never said you did but that's the signal you send.  🤷‍♂️ 

 The signal I send is all gas no breaks and if you want to settle it play me 1v1 to 11 and we’ll see who laughs last