one day I'll left from this big instance and starting to self hosting my account. not only self hosting my account but also providing a service of safe place for everyone 

 this is whats wrong with people of fedi, everyone dreams to self host and be a mod to take charge of everyone and everything 

 Unfortunately they can't see this.  One day they'll have their own instance and you'll be able to send them a message (once, before they defed you). 

 yup its mastodsocial