Aha!! you are here. Glad to see you fren. :) I just post to private member only relays if i am feeling paranoid.
good to see u too !!! 😄 haha i'm trying to be as little paranoid as is viable, unfortunately that's still a fair bit i'm still pretty light on the technical details here, haven't done anything like manually setting a relay, maybe i should consider running my own on x0f.org