My gray coming in has been beautiful, not horrifying. Depending on the lighting, the bounce, the scenario, it's a bit of confidence and mystery. 

It's a badge. I survived a lot. I earned them. I know things. 
I know things younger people don't. 

I understand now why older women can throw off a certain look and have it mow down every last bit of intimidation or sass thrown her way.

But the mystery and the air of confident knowing... 

Cruella got it all wrong. She could have been so much more.