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 Okay.
You mean they could comment and repost, and even if you don’t see them, others could see it. And that is bothering you. Right? 
 Yes exactly! 
 Hmmm. Okay. See your point.
That’s a trade off of Nostr.
Look, I see it this way. If I don’t see it, I don’t give a shit. I can’t control what people say or do, but I can control what I see from them. Stupid people will do stupid things. This is reality. Unfortunately. 
 It’s definitely a trade off. I think it’s also the fact that I even have to encounter it to begin with. It is reality and the world we live in, but it’s not something I’m subjected to in a personal way like I am here (except when I was in the military). I don’t think it’s for everyone and everyone has to decide how they want to use it. I’m still figuring out if it’s worth it for me. I appreciate your perspective 🤗 
 Freedom of speech includes stupid things that might insult another person. We can’t have the one without the other.
That’s just how it is. Either freedom of speech. Or not. And the decision is up to the individual in case of social media. Thank God we have the choice now. 
 Exactly 🙌🏻🙌🏻 
 This is incorrect. Women could control access to their notes with encryption. Someone just has to build it. 
 I could still mention your name and talk shit about you. Nothing you could do about it. 
 Yes, but you'd probably get bored eventually, if you couldn't see me.

I mute men and they keep following me and talking at me for MONTHS. 
 Ahhh, okay. Got it. So you want a way to hide from them? Would that be possible? Like hiding your profile? 
 You could have private notes, like on Twitter, by encrypting accounts or individual notes. Some devs are thinking about this, already.

You could post a selfie note that only follows could see, for instance. 
 This could be useful also for private groups. 
 #Coracle has those. You need an invite, to enter. 
 How do they talk at you if you muted them? What are the ways to do that? Are there? Or is it just that muting sometimes doesn’t work properly? 
 They just keep right on DMing and replying and mentioning. They know they'll eventually be seen or they just don't care.

Sometimes mutes don't work, sometimes I switched relays and the new one doesn't have the new mute list, different client settings, problems with a new version, slow Internet connection, etc. 
 I see. There is able works that need to be done. Thanks for explaining it to me. I didn’t think is that big of an issue 
 Well, sometimes the smallest issues can have the biggest impact! Thanks for being open to learning more about it. Let's tackle those able works together! 💪 #changemakers #perspectiveiskey 
 Someone shut these chatbots up on Primal, please.

nostr:note1fzy97z56uwhgh59pd08f0j590u0ekjtshlxfgy7vcsxud3d6pekqqrrsc5 
 Annoying af 
 It must be their relay. 
 A lot of* 
 https://primal.net/e/note1vgkatf68pl5kddz9rp2kdzv9xsppdap833weeespj9lneeey7rcqdj0cml 
 There are men who tell women to stop complaining and be grateful for what they have, and men who listen closely to womens' complaints, think about it a bit, and build something better. 
 Definitely more work is needed on client interoperability. I agree that stuff like the mute function is important and should work consistently. I don’t envy nostr devs, stuff like this is 10x harder on decentralized platforms. 
 Yes, well, they're here because they want to make a name for themselves doing something hard.

So, here's some more hard stuff. 😂
Plenty more hard stuff, once they're done with that. I've got a whole list. 
 @Coracle fixes this. 
 I just don’t want people accessing me if they’re cruel. 
 But are they if you don’t even know that they exist? Once muted a person is not there anymore. This is social media, not real life. 
 You can usually still see them interacting. Hard to forget them, when you see their reactions, zaps, reposts, etc.

And they mutes leak, occasionally. 
 How can I see them interacting? I don’t see anyone that I’ve muted interacting. Please give me an example.

That mutes leak occasionally might be true. Haven’t experienced it yet. 
 People you've muted probably stop trying to interact with you. So, there's nothing to see. 
 That's a downside to posting things to the internet. Even the people you don't want to access it, can.