Hi, Isa! :-) Welcome to Nostr.

There's a private/paid wine relay (the symbol is a glass of wine, you can see it listed in the relays in my profile https://next.nostrudel.ninja/#/u/npub1m4ny6hjqzepn4rxknuq94c2gpqzr29ufkkw7ttcxyak7v43n6vvsajc2jl/relays)

Once someone subscribes to that relay (which is a server containing the notes of the subscribers), they can then add the special filter that pulls notes from other big relays, so that you can see the notes of your followers and from the people they follow. You can also use it to "broadcast" to other big relays, to make sure most Nostr users can see your notes.

https://docs.nostr.wine/filter/readme 

 Oh, I thought you meant it was best to get drunk before reading something.... 🫠