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 I once dated a black girl for a short time. About six months. Met some of her friends, too. So... I  gotta say: you DO NOT have to get sassy about every goddamn thing we say! 🙄

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 We like the sass. 

I always felt there was an unconscious decision made in me to speak in a manner that would increase the chances of getting Sassed out. I wanted to produce that outcome because it is irresistible for a man with a hunter/game approach like I was unfortunately bestowed with (or developed)
 
 
 I can't deny this. It's true. Dude, the sassiest women, more often than not, possess the most confidence. Sucker for pain is what I am 😅. But,  it can be fun to be challenged. 🤷‍♂️ It can get boring FAST when women are too submissive. 
 A great wit is a 100% top of the list item for any woman to be considered by me. It's co-equal with two others, and I even have a witty line about all that, but it may offend Stella's delicate sensibilities...