the problem with hating monero is that it still gives you anonymity Bitcoin does not. you can infinitely whine about horses being better than cars, but you cannot deny the fact that you will never go closely as fast on a horse (if you find fast movement aka privacy important).

tho, if you dislike exactly  monero coin, not "every coin expect the bitcoin", then it ain't bad: one can freely try zcash (which is even more private) and dash instead, why not  

 Just sent you 1 sat (public zap). Now find me the on-chain address associated with that one sat. If you can't, then you've just proved that Bitcoin's L2 (Lightning Network) offers sufficient anonymity for 99.999% of people. 

 Nice. Now lets see your receiving privacy (and overwhelming custodial LN adoption = no privacy)

https://zapalytics.com/