Oddbean

Agreed. My children’s father is absolutely one of the best men I’ve ever known. Years ago someone I hadn’t seen for awhile came to my office & kept asking how he was etc … finally had to say I wasn’t sure about one of the things. He replied: but you’re married to him. I laughed & explained we divorced years before that. Never forgot how he stopped talking & his face went blank. Then he said: I’m sorry, I didn’t know. Never heard either of you speak bad about the other so I had no idea you divorced. I said something along the line of: He’s the father of my children. It’s great to hear he’s never spoken bad of me. I see no reason to speak bad of him. Hopefully this comes out as educational & not preaching or arrogant. Cause trust me: my ex and I had our personal issues but we kept it out of our workplaces (almost completely aside from immediate supervision for obvious reasons) & always away from our children. Our grown children are incredible & turned out way better than any of us could have hoped.

I loved and lost women in my past for various reasons, they were along my journey for a while, but not the whole way. Genuinely not looking for variety or unpredictability anymore. I want this to be it, but will find my way if it isn’t✨ Thank you for sharing 🙏

So much fun. 🤩 babies are the best. You will love her so much. ✨🤩 Children really make life better for almost everyone. They love unconditionally & see the world through their own eyes. Always fun to see & talk with small humans. They communicate & teach me more than I could ever hope to teach them.

Unasked for advice I’ve told many of my mother friends over the years: “YES 🙌 we can have it all. But not all at once. Attempt it if you want & you will burn out.” Maybe some don’t. But something always takes a backseat. 🫂 Hope you understand where I’m coming from saying this.

My parents stayed together, probably shouldn’t have🗣️💯😂 my in-laws stayed together until all 3 kids finished intermediate/high school and FIL came out gay. parents do some crazy shit or break up for the right reasons- no wrong answers 💜

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I imagine everyone wants 😀 to take 💯 advantage of the 🌈 improvements of interventions in health. 🎉 It’s got a slow 💯 feedback mechanism though. Or at-least slow on 😂 human time 😀 scales. Maybe the future 😂 will look fondly back at this Bubble time period as when antibiotics still 😂 worked. 😂 When humans had all the inherited resiliance and the technology to assist health before the 🔥 genes went to trash and disease caught up. 🔥