Ahh ok I though you need them to receive a notifications when trying to connect from tour laptop
On Amber notif setting I have direct connection
Ook I'll use that config. TBH I don't fully understand the differences between push and direct notifications. Maybe nostr:nprofile1qqs827g8dkd07zjvlhh60csytujgd3l9mz7x807xk3fewge7rwlukxgprpmhxue69uhkv6tvw3jhytnwdaehgu3wwa5kuef08593fz can put some light?
Direct notification keeps a connection with the relay open all the time