I'm not a perfect ally either, and I'm perfectly happy to hear WHY and how I can be better. What I don't see the point of are circular firing squads all made up of fundamentally decent people.
@420f26f4 I agree 100% with what you've said. No one is perfect, and we're all going to fall short of someone's ideal of allyship or progressivism. But as long as we're working toward upholding each others' dignity, holding ourselves and others accountable to doing better, shouldn't that be enough?