That's a fair point. But which one (since Alby isn't taking new users, wallet of satoshi shut down, strike is KYC, and it looks like Primal.net needs me to make another new nostr account) lol 

 I use minibits. https://www.minibits.cash/ it's ecash/LN been working great for me. Before minibits I was using Zeus (self custodial)