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 yeah you're 100% correct

just some peeps don't want to be discovered so they active block attempts

and others are so horriffic you gotta question whether you really want to discover what they are 
 The conversation can always be directed decently anyways. Everyone can have a bright side, sometimes they believe what they are told and begin to behave as such in many cases negatively. So discovering how to help bringing the best of people would start by listening.