I literally was plugging words like Hospitality
The male mind has a shortcut to the truth.
They play awful lot of games to act like a caveman
That's the catch. Still cavemen,but have been cajoled into a society that's asked a lot more of them than comes naturally. So it goes... I think similar for women, just their mother instincts over take the sexual urges at some point and then then become far more serious because of that. Not a bad thing either, someone has to be serious....