https://github.com/mikedilger/gossip now displays DMs as normal posts in my "inbox" feed, which is the only and best place that can ever work. Very good. (I still think DMs are a mistake.)
(So you're not a fan of a security audited nip44?)
They are in your inbox feed, and they are also grouped by counterparty under Private Chats just like other clients do.
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