Welcome. Which client are you using? Your profile should show them both to you. Sometimes there is a bit of lag, I think, getting the relay updates to your client. 

 Tried Damus and now primal. Lag is taking hours! 

 I tried Primal. I use Amethyst on Android now. It seems to be better - so far. Still some lag though.  

 I have an iPhone. I don't think Amethyst is available. 

 It isn't. It's Android specific I believe. There are others available for iOS though.