What’s your client?
You really think that is the problem? If I tell people what I use, they tell me to use something else.
I’m just thinking that I’ve noticed Primal has a backlog sometimes. I’ll open it up and it’s only stuff from hours ago. It sometimes doesn’t update for a whole day. If you were using Primal I’d say just wait around and use another client in the meantime while you wait for it to catch up. I use both Primal and Damus daily now.