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 Is this true? 😭 nostr:note12qsj77vlpaavtgvcpxavw333f7kn7w9qndmg7dn4zndtd25sn8nsjf0xun 
 I don’t think it’s impossible. I swore to myself I’d never have  kids and now there are 2 running around. I’m not against the idea of a 3rd. So… Kats like that do exist (I think) 
 Giving me hope fren 🫂🫂🫂🙏🏽thank you 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 
 Na, kids are the future. One of the most important investments you’ll ever make if not the best. Def gotta be more that agree with me out there. 
 I completely agree 💯🫂🫂🫂💜 kids are the future 🫂 
 Kids ain't cheap, luv! Especially in England! 
 Hmm who says I’d end up having kids in England? 🤔 
 You plan on moving? 
 Ideally yeah - my birth chart says it’s in my future. Yes, yes, before you say it, I know you think I’m a hippie or bonkers or something. I probably am, I dunno. I’m a lil spiritual 🤷🏽‍♀️😎 
 😏😅 Lol... trust me... we're all a bit bonkers. I'm a Sagittarius. December 2nd. Dunno what that means for my bloody birth chart though. 🤷‍♂️ 
 Sagittarius 😬 oh dear 
 Lol... what? 
 Juuust fucking with you 🤣🫂 Sagittarius is cool 
 What astrological sign are you? 
 Sagittarius 😎 
 🤔😅 Lol... I'm beginning to understand why my old man and I stopped getting along as I reached adulthood. 

https://www.astrology.com/article/sagittarius-man.html 
 He was a Cancer 
 ... and when ya really think about it. The hippies were spot on about many things. 
 Ideologically speaking that is 🤔 
 yep. I only wanted 2 
 That’s fair 🫂 
 I love my kids and we may have had more, but we were older when we started and are very happy where were at. If you want kids I wish you the best and hope you find someone who compliments you well as my wife does me. Together we make one hell of a person and my kids are the same way lol. I don't know if that's good or not, but it is. 
 That’s beautiful 🫂🫂🫂🥹 that’s very kind, thank you 🙏🏽 I hope so too 
 Unfortunately for the most part, yes. It's true.

You see...

It's a big commitment for a man to take in your 3 kids, as his own... and letting all the men you've been with be around in that manner... is just strange, right?

For if anything was to happen, he wouldn't have access to them any longer...

It's just a very big risk most men try to avoid.  
 Oh, I don’t have any kids yet 🫂 
 Back a few generations ago people had lots of kids.  My grandmother was pregnant 18 times and had 16 kids (one stillborn, one died before being named).  To the Catholics, every sperm is sacred I guess.