How to notice a Good Man π§ π― With Good Man, Iβm not referring to a βNice Guyβ π (see π previous post π for definition). π₯ Iβm π talking about a π man π who is and wants good, but who also π knows and loves boundaries. A Good Man is π confident, and π€ kind. He knows how π₯ to π₯ say No. π He treats you with π respect, and expects you to treat him π with π respect, and if you donβt, heβll simply π move on, unlike the π Nice Guy who sticks around because π he needs validation from you. A Good Man wants to get married, and doesnβt play games. He π wants to be the man π€ of one woman, a good woman, whom he can raise good π€ kids with. Even π if he doesnβt want kids, if π they happen to come π along, heβll π take π on the job as a dad with joy. A Good Man knows how to lead, and how to π encourage others to lead. He gives π space for others to try π₯ new things, and encourages them π even π if they fail. A Good Man can spot the difference π between π someone who needs a second chance to π― succeed, and one π who has π decided to fail no π matter π how many chances they π get. π A Good Man is π authentic and speaks π the truth even when it's uncomfortable. π€
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