Male logic: "Don't be daft! That'll never happen! 🙄" Female logic: "Look here... you'll be searching for a mate your entire life if you hold on to standards such as those. I think, deep down, you know I'm talkin' sense here. I'm only tryin' to help you, love! 🫂"
I have told friends before that the person described in their list doesn’t exist. I’ve also been like ok so what’s the 60-80% of the list that’s really necessary and what are the nice to haves. I’ve also suggested people look at their list and for everything they’re asking for evaluate how they’re bringing that or a complimentary trait to the table.