No, really, this is me IRL, too.

I'm the volunteer lady from the PTA, who sings in the church choir and sells homemade goods at the farmer's market, so that the mayor feels grudgingly obliged to be polite and give me invitations to the City Hall Christmas party because everyone has at least seen me around and leaving me out would be difficult to explain.

It's a whole vibe. 

 One of these days I'll have your energy.