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 it seems like those prenuptial business negotiations would dull the type of romance it takes to want to get married in the first place 
 It's the other way around, too.

If he has money and makes her feel awkward about it (usually by accident), then it also dulls the romance. It's so hard to not constantly worry that you're just the hired entertainment.
Does he even really like you or does he just think you look good in his car? 😏

It's so much easier to start out at the same level and rise from there, together. As a team.