you cant rush being given that responsibility 

you cant make that responsibility happen

it is only given to you as a gift of trust

to not see that for what it is
to not value that for what it is

is such a crime towards yourself & others 

 there is nothing cucked about it

&?

if you wouldnt give a shit unless your cum helped make that kid

you do not deserve a child 

 ~that~ is what community is
all the kids are our kids
it takes a village to raise a kid
we dont have enough villages for one kid per village obviously 

so: many kids have to be raised by many villages