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 This applies to all people even women lmao that’s why most people don’t marry their first partner 
 Yes, but women are always trying to figure out what "most men prefer" and being That Girl, but it doesn't have the desired effect.

We used to do all these Cosmo quizzes and my results were always something along the lines of

Have you considered become a nun? 
 cosmo is such a trash publication, talking about how women are more susceptible to marketing and propaganda - that is a classic example of 20th century mindfuck 
 I guess it's Instagram, nowadays. 
 You’re generalizing a lot. Like so much it makes me question if you live under a rock 😂

There is a huge industry of businesses targeting men that want to understand women better. There are YouTube channels on seduction, books on pickup, and literally dating coaching classes where men pay thousands of dollars to learn body language and subliminal messaging. There is also a dark side to this: think of Andrew Tate and the fresh and fit podcast which feed into men’s frustration of misunderstanding women. Men are very desperate to understand women. 
 Roissy tried to pick me up. 😂 
 Roissy? 
 Yeah. 
 Wtf is that 
 😂 You were this many days old when you learned about Roissy in DC and RooshV.

You must be much younger than me, since you're talking about Andrew Tate. 
 I haven’t learned about these words that you still haven’t explained the meaning of to me lol