Oddbean new post about login | logout On amethyst there's just 3 dots on the post, then bottom of the menu https://image.nostr.build/43a64cc180708cd4c752e4a47252074ad0bfe6ebdfd2fce5011e89c2540c5597.jpg
There's a list of relays here but I don't know how to know about deletion. It's still early days https://nostr.watch/relays/find
