Depends of which tradeoffs you are willing to make.
Alby is custodial but a good option as far as ease of use and features. Invite only.
eCash wallets like Minibits are also good but still early and also come with some custodial tradeoffs.
Mutiny is a nice noncustodial wallet but I believe it only let's you send zaps, not receive them.
Other good noncustodial wallets are Phoenix and Zeus. Slight learning curves but both let you send and receive zaps.
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Mutiny let's you receive zap if you have paid plan. I think they are going to allow general soon