write your own nostr library

https://realy.lol is mine, adapted from go-nostr and relayer. it's much better

you won't regret forking it... the only hassle is when you need to support new protocol features, but you can just copypasta and adapt them to your own anyhow 

 I don't have the time to write everything from scratch... :( 

 always fork, always 

 That's (the nrelay prefix in NIP-19) deprecated afaik, but it should have a non-breaking backwards compatible solution for it, yes. 

 That was the October surprise. 

 Never update anything.