The 'Opportunity' is the Exchange of Pure Human Empathy. I get it's baby steps, but, KYI is needed here, Know Your Influencer. Your Influencer may see you as an 'Opportunity' as apposed to rebalancing a system of abuse, they may rebalance the 'Opinion of You' what an 'Opportunity' that is for them. When Opportunity Knocks, what do you do? Stand up and perform for the Clap-o-meter to approve you. Exchanging Pure Human Empathy without fear or favour is everything, don't get lost in anything else.