No not really ! 

This means that you are using relays either paid or private ones. Hence, you are not allowed to publish your events to them. 

Try adding some free relays to your relay list (you can go to my profile and look at the relays I use, most of them are free) 

 cool thanks, I've tried to use some of yours but they showing in red. Does that mean they are offline or something? 

 Are they still in red ? Maybe it takes sometime for them to connect. 

Try these : 
wss://relay.damus.io
wss://relay.nostr.band
wss://nos.lol
wss://nostr.mom
wss://nostr.mutinywallet.com