There are no tricks, secrets. It's not a fair system. They make up the rules as they go. Want a tip? If you want to play by the rules then don't use bitcoin.

The value prop of Bitcoin is permissionless which is incompatible with white markets by definition.

If one is going to make transactions that follow the rules, there is little reason to have or use Bitcoin. In fact, it might even end up worse than just using fiat.