dtonon.nostr1.com and other relay in my 10002 list, that ate already in the outbox/home section. Example:

https://njump.me/nevent1qqsyqm8463r3rz2vfln507a0axdvlmdst667h0uvfvw9h5n3ufppr2sprpmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wdmksetjv5hxxmmdqy28wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hsygrmmmmmugka3evlgcqwq3922wsul966nhrayl04svauwldhsjjcq5ac3zux

Maybe is  the problem related to the fact that some lists are encrypted?