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 The “Attractive Hobbies” list is again, things that women think they are attracted to. Idealized visions of a man.  Very few of those items are anything that would be exhibited in early interactions when attraction is triggered. You could never read a book, be into cosplay, and hate art - but by the time she finds out any of this, she is already attracted to you because she is actually attracted to your confidence and leadership, not to your hobbies whatsoever.