How to tell the difference between a Good Man, π and a Nice Guy π€ When you ask a man to help you with π something, a good man will π tell π you Yes, because he π― wants to help you, but a nice guy will say π Yes, π because he has a π hard time π€ saying No. The Nice Guy will go away grumbling π about it, whereas the Good Man will be π proud of having helped π― you. The Good Man understands and values boundaries, whereas the Nice Guy has a π hard time π with boundaries. The Good Man will ask you π on a date, whereas π€ the Nice π Guy will ask you to hang out. He might as you to coffee, but heβll rarely use the words date. There is a scale between being Nice π― Guy and Good Man, and π₯ most Nice π Guys move towards being Good π€ Men as they grow in confidence, but if π₯ youβre a lady picking a potential spouse, donβt pick a Nice Guy hoping that heβll chance, pick π€ a man π who π is already at the level you want him, as expecting π him to chance is π one of π₯ the top mistakes π― women π make when choosing a partner. π₯
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