This one is tricky for me. I feel the tension between the physical impulse to preserve my own life with the desire to be the one that violence ends with. Not that I will end all violence, but that I will not respond to violence with violence, even if it costs me my life.
This is a complex issue: whether one has a duty to preserve life in the face of a lethal aggressor or is there something good about refraining from enforcing one’s desire to live.
I see aggression as something to be resisted by all those capable. I feel defending self and others against aggression is a duty, both a moral duty and a civic duty. Our bill of rights agrees it’s a civic duty almost explicitly and implies it’s a moral one as well.