I haven't posted any Matt Walsh clips for ages, but this one is worth it, just for the comments.
There is someone going, it's a famous 90s dance track by Enigma, it's about the Marquis De Sade, she's doing a literal performance of his theory that sex has to be painful to be pleasurable. 
I'm like "ah-ha! That makes it PERFECTLY OKAY, then"!
https://youtu.be/sxCtwn0f1HM?si=h6d0lsIOXWAAxMa7 

 I wish she’d been allowed to grow up. She’d be past the whole self destructive phase now and on her 3rd therapist.