Are you on primal or amethyst? You have way too many inbox/outbox relays. If you are on Primal go to https://metadata.nostr.com/ log in, click relays and pick 3 that you are SURE to have all of your posts and mark them as WRITE. Then pick 3 (it can be the same) that ANYONE can write into (no paid relays) and select READ.
Sorry, I'm on Amethyst.
Recommendations On Inbox and Outbox, add: - nos.lol - nostr.mom - relay.damus.io For private inbox/DM, add: - nos.lol - relay.0xchat.com - auth.nostr1.com On Search, hit the default button.