I get it, but for a spending situation and an amount like 20k sats it is okay to not pay Alby and host your own node for 30k a month - don't you think?
Using a custodial solution for absolutely anything is absolutely 100% never ever ever okay. Promoting custodial solutions is about the same amount of dangerous as promoting Philip Morris cigarettes to children. Why do you want to kill children?
Forget about idealistic radicals, custodial lightning is a real sub-optimal solution and will be for the near future for many people. Nice!