You can't do that if the infrastructure for it is compromised.
Also, most websites use Cloudflare and make VPN's and Tor terrible or blocked
They do, and? Do you need to use most websites? It is not easy. But selling your private data is lucrative, so don't expect to get it back easily in my opinion.
Sorry, definitely, you are both right, but both of you sounded like who complain. But maybe you had a different intention. We have hardship definitely. Cloudflare is one big centralizing bad force, that shall be slowly replaced with something else. But I hope, these negative looking problems are not puting you back to act for your privacy and your freedom. We shall not give up at the first hardship. Let's go! 🔥🔥🍻
Good things in life are not easy. If you want privacy, you have to fight for it. Those who takes advantage of the lack or your privacy will also do the same.