You can hate Hayton. no-one can stop you.  You can object, on reasonable grounds, to AGP in a specific job that includes a power imbalance.  And you can be epically disappointed that others don't agree with you.

but this seems way out of hand.

https://unherd.com/2024/02/caught-up-in-the-gender-critical-civil-war/

It seems to me that people, the women in this, are just as guilty as those (often men) in other movements of factionalism, and wanting to join something just for a fight.  I don't think any group on any issue is free of that.  People are tired, there is a degree of brain inflammation (seriously) abroad in society, tempers are frayed.  Self awareness is low.  Valid points get lost. And arguments become diminished.