I am secure where I am, but I am in one area I dispise and they are all snakes....I am around snakes that never take accountability and always blame shift and gaslight. 
It takes a lot of energy from me to try to ignore, but I can't....I won't shut up either....lol so I put myself in discussions I cannot win.
To look for something else means leaving that security behind....but I am not alone, I have family that depends on me ...bills to pay ...not easy.