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 Don't confuse 'empathy and kindness' with 'being nice.' Just because someone demonstrates empathy and kindness does not mean they will tolerate disrespect.

It's often the opposite. People who can empathise and show kindness have learned valuable lessons— the hard way. As a result, they prioritise healthy boundaries above all else, and if you push those boundaries, they will stand firm.

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 I am not sure how we started at the wrong footing.

I value open discussions, but I find that name-calling and insults (irate) don't contribute to a productive conversation. It sounds like this was not the first time we had a convo (as you implied). Unless we can have a respectful dialogue then my time is not worth the while. Have a good one! 🫂 nostr:nprofile1qqsxzpn9q3shaeunsuppuxxgn7me68wmc0nmluvu7g5c7szxd7r3t6gpz3mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuerpd46hxtnfduqs6amnwvaz7tmwdaejumr0dsq32amnwvaz7tmjv4kxz7fwd4hhxarj9ec82csrg3ufz

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