I don’’t feel lost but it’s taking time to understand how it works, especially the relays with their many different tasks, how to choose them or even how to build your own…other than that I enjoy the junk free feed. I use Primal. 
I wonder is it possible to change the purple colour of links and tags to a less eye straining colour? Or is it just me?
Thank you. 

 If you’re up for it we’d love to interview you and have you go through a quick card sorting exercise.  

 Yes sure, what would be a good time for you, bearing in mind I’m in London? 

 I will send you a DM. We have times that should work for you. 

 I tried replying to your original post above about being a list user, but the app doesn’t seem to want me to reply there. So I’m trying here.