You a raise a good point and I agree that love for everything, including that of unwanted contrast is beneficial in discovering what it is that you want. So, I do appreciate the older generations for providing this so that we begin to make the conscious choice to move in the direction of what it that we do want. I don't care what others think of me, I only care what I think of them. 

 I, too, am prone to judgement and intolerance. So my note to you was also a reminder to myself 🙏🏻😌 

 We all need reminders to self. Being human is about expanding into joy, passion and excitement without any insistence on the outcome and with expectations of something good happening. 

 Aaaaaaaamen 💓🙏🏻